So yesterday I tried again to answer the question I get asked over and over again … What do I get out of this? Or - what’s the appeal, is how I think it was phrased this time. And - I gave the same old answer about not really being able to describe it but it having to do in some way with being forbidden and taboo.
Last night I read a post on another blog (blowjobprincess, whom everyone - male or female needs to check out - very smart, sexy blog) that spoke about why she likes giving oral sex so much, and it applies to this as well. Paraphrasing slightly, I think - “You might as well ask me why I like oxygen so much.”
That’s pretty much it. Both Sweetie’s need for the constant validation of male attraction to her and my need for the humiliation of surrendering my wife’s gorgeous body to the pleasure of other men have become something we don’t want to think about living without. It’s just who we’ve become and what we need.